lesson to be learned

some great people say life is beautiful and one should enjoy it to its limits. I can almost guarantee u that it was no so for andy roddick after that heart breaking final. after being so close to holding that beautiful cup and still witnessing the guy on the other side of the net holding that is never good sight to watch even if he is ur good friend. As roger said after the match its crazy tennis can sometimes be cruel. Yes, it can be, like what was the difference between roddick and federer, i guess both played wonderfully and gave everything they could, yet one had to be a loser. why? well i have no answers for that.But its sports and its a part of sports and one has to move on...i understand what andy must be feeling now, infact i m still to mentally come out of the match, i still fell that the match is on and the winner is yet to be decided.whatever be the case, roger u r a true champion and i salute u for that but my heart goes for andy, who played superb tennis and i would love to see u as a champion in years to come.

When Roddick was asked if he struggled to stay positive after losing the second set, he replied: “You know, at that point, like everything else, there's two options: you lay down or you keep going. The second option sounded better to me." yes, it true with our life too, we always have two options, one to learn from our mistakes and move on and the other to unaccept our mistakes and blame it on others and do the same mistakes over and over again. some of us chose the former while some the later. few days back i witness two guys in my lobby fight for some really silly thing. the thing was that ankit has a habbit of leaving his room locked by turning on his music player in his laptop. rahul had hardly any problem with that, but the problem was that ankit leves his room playing the same song again and again. so he fond it too boring to listen the same song repeatively. ofcouse, his problem was understandable, infact anyone would find it boring to listen to a single song for 10 or 15 times at one go.rahul would have had no problem if he would have left his room playing different songs. the next day, ankit did the same, so this time rahul asked him politely to not to play the same song again and again when he left his room. ankit, i dont why, infact i was surprised to see his reaction, reacted in strong voice "what u gona do if i play the same song gain and again", rahul again explained to him politely but ankit was in no mood to understand what the other person was actually meaning. so even rahul got heated up with his reaction and this is how the fight took place. later on when he met ankit again, rahul apologized to ankit for his behavior(i dont know why) and he explained what was his actual concern. this time ankit listened to his saying but he never apologized, though it was he who reacted first without even listening to what actually rahul meant. well, i admire what rahul had done, it takes lot of guts and balls for one to do such brave act. he felt that he was also responsible for that fight and so he corrected himself while the other guy felt that the quarrel was entirely due to rahul and never apologized.

well this is how the life goes, sometimes we are on the winner side and sometimes on the losing side, the important thing is that we learn from our faults and make ourselves better.